Homophobia to me is when it is suggested that it is a chosen condition, to which i am responsible for. You have no idea what it is to be me, and i certainly did alot to fight it off, and eventually we all grow up to realize, we can't fight who we are. so we bitterly understand that, lay down low, and pretend we're happy with who we are. we're not. but what can we do.
Don't you dare tell me it was my fault for being this way, nothing in my subconscious wants this.
Between the red pill and the blue pill, i'd choose the one who'd let me be fully heterosexual.